My father was in the hospital 2x in the last month. they wanted to put him in a care center but they decided he was cognizant. He is 91 he has a deep wound on his leg he was released from the hospital and rehab because of insurance. Sister showed up and took over, hiring a helper who he fired because he is so so evil, people tell me that left and right, he screams in my face all the time. She got a person in place who showed up today but who knows if she will come back. She did a lot of work but at the end of the day she got a big fat cashiers check from my father for her child's "school" so there you go.
The reason I bring this up with you is to encourage you to treat any potential inheritance the same way in de-calculating it from your long term survival costs. Leave dad and sis to their own devices. As you said, you don’t care.
You are right I have already resolved myself to the fact I won't get anything, it will probably take years to even see any money (and I am not young lol) I just want to give her some grief she has been so mean and he has as well.
BUT I know I should let it go for my own peace of mind and to protect my peace I should let the chips fall where they may and I will
Thanks again