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In my area there is something called Rent a Daughter. They have caregivers of different levels and also other domestic staff. I found them through my local community partnership on aging, which you should also have in your community.
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Foamergirl Mar 28, 2026
Not in my community.
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By time spouse needed caregiver, rates had started to increase. Initially very doable @ $ 15 hr. Gradually increased to $ 30 to $ 40. As mentioned when caregiver calls off, and do understand emergencies can come up for anyone, there is no backup. We ran the numbers and less expensive for assisted living.
There was the change of cost - evening/ over night more, higher on weekends, holidays. Full care aide need best handled in assisted living. It just simply comes down to needing and wishing so much to be able to stay in one's home, but too expensive. We ended uo selling home, move to 1 bedroom assisted living. Felt blessed because we were able to be together. For sure, the road of life in senior years is tough.
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Foamergirl Mar 28, 2026
I feel torn. $6k for home care versus over $13k for long term care in my area. Tough choices.
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Hi. The home attendant hourly service usual ranges from $15-$35.00 an hour depending on where you get the help. I was lucky to use our church members to stay with my mom during day until I found a caregiver. The $15 an hour was the caregiver I found in the neighborhood community through word of mouth…. Asking around family & friends to temporarily hire someone is good & a little safer than relying on people you don’t know. Mind you the level of care ranging from being just a companion & sitting on the sofa watching TV for $15 bucks an hour. Senior community outreach helped us out eventually that includes cleaning & cooking etc…$$ Goodluck & I hope this info helps.
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I also found care.com to be useless. I emailed some. No one ever responded. I think some of the accounts are "fake" caregivers to get you to join.

It was very difficult to cancel the monthly charges also. I had to pay our accountant to park on the phone to cancel the account.

We found good CNA's by word of mouth.
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Dana1969, welcome to the forum. Back when my Dad needed someone to watch over him at his home, I used a well known caregiving agency (such as the ones that advertise on TV). The company was licensed, bonded, and insured. They took care of the payroll, and had workman's comp insurance on their employees in case if one got hurt on the job. The employees had to be up-to-date on their flu shots, etc. And if an employee was unable to make their shift, the agency quickly found another caregiver to fill in. The night shift person had to stay awake the whole time.


For my Dad, this was ten years ago and he was paying $30/hr for 3-shifts of caregivers per day. After a year, Dad decided it was time to move to senior living. We found a wonderful place, the apartment rent was $5k per month which offered weekly housekeeping/linen service, plus meals in the community dining room, menu style.
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I had the same experience with Care.com useless, big waste of time & money, would NOT recommend
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$30hr
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Foamergirl Mar 28, 2026
What do they do for $30/hour? The caregivers in my area referred by hospice agency want that to watch the baby monitor all day while I do all the work. So disappointing.
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MBMc57,


Direct-hire caregiver platforms (best for independent hiring).


CareLinx.com

Lets you interview and hire directly.
Background checks + payroll tools included.
Thousands of caregivers in Chicago.

Good luck.
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I live in Illinois (outside Chicago) and pay $20 for one of our caregivers and $30 for another. I found both of them independently not through an agency.
I did not have good experiences with an agency so I would not recommend using one.
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KellyGirl71 Mar 28, 2026
I live outside of Chicago. Lemont to be exact. What kind of things do you ask your hired caregiver to do? What are their duties per your request. Thank you
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Cost should be between $20-$30/hour based on whether its an agency or independent caregiver. Personally, I have preferred independents as agencies are too rigid. Lately I have excellent young, energetic, clinically aware nursing students that take care of my 87 yr old stroke and dementia affected mother. Its not 24-7, but I am able to get respite for 5-8 hours as often as needed.
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MBMc57 Mar 27, 2026
How do I go about finding an independent caregiver? We are in Chicago suburbs.
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The caregiver company I use for my Dad, who lives in OKC, is Home well care and for 4 hours or more a week is $32.00 an hour.
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Try to get involved in your local neighborhood Caregiver groups. We put flyers in the local grocery stores. We got hooked into the local Polish, Ukrainian, and Lithuanian care givers. They were all very good and covered for each other when they wanted a day off.
A rider on home insurance covered for the workers Worker’s Comp.
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Foamergirl Mar 27, 2026
That's the first time I have heard home insurance rider covering worker's comp. Thank you for that comment. I'm going to ask our insurance if that is a possible coverage.
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My dad's home health care is $30.50 an hour from an agency in Houston, TX. He also has another independent caregiver who is less at $25 an hour. Dad has 24/7 home health care.
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Hi Dana1969,
 
The national median cost of nonmedical home care is $34 per hour, according to A Place for Mom's 2026 Costs of Long-Term Care and Senior Living Report. Keep in mind that home care costs vary by location, provider, number of hours that are arranged, and type of care needed.

You can explore the full report here: https://www.aplaceformom.com/senior-living-data/long-term-care-costs
 
Hope this helps!
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Dana,
The cost of care can vary greatly depending on the type and quantity of care, the special skills required of the caregiver, and your location.

Some people think hiring private caregivers will save them money, but that may not always be true. You will have no resources to back you up if the caregiver calls off, steals dad's stuff, or mistreats him. And, you probably won't be able to confirm their credentials and liability insurance. (No one will ever give you a bad reference - not even the dumbest caregiver!)

A home healthcare agency will be the most expensive. This could be a good option if Dad is not under the care of a primary physician. Dad will get a nurse evaluation, "aka sales call," prior to admission and monthly follow-up visits by the nurse to recommend additional care. They will staff licensed CNAs or certified HHAs, have conducted thorough background checks, and confirm the aides' credentials are up to date. They should be able to send a replacement if a caregiver is sick or unavailable, but some agencies have an "as available" staffing policy, so Dad may have a different aide every day of the week or no caregiver at all. A home healthcare agency will not allow its workers to work more than 40 hours, but if you want them to work more, the rate is time-and-a-half. This could cause a parade of caregivers in and out of the house if they are staffing multiple shifts every day of the week. They often require huge downpayments and long cancellation periods.

The middle ground is typically the best if the patient is seeing their PCP regularly and there is family support, either local or out of town. Home Care Agencies (aka Nurse Registries) operate as a placement agency to help you find the perfect caregiver for your dad. The people they refer will have to have the exact same credentials and requirements as homehealth. (Homehealth and home care can be confusing, but they are very different.) Since Home care agencies use independent contractors, they can typically charge less while paying their caregivers more, leading to happier, more loyal caregivers. Also, because they are Independent Contactors, both you and the home care agency can remove them from a case without worrying about DOE pushback, and you have more choice over the people who come to your home. Independent Contractors are not required to be paid overtime for hours over 40, so they can work a 12-hour shift 5 days without it costing you more money, and Dad will get more consistent care with less staffing.

Some people say the downside is that independent contractors are not covered by workers' comp, but in most cases, homeowners' insurance could cover an accident, and the types of incidents that may require a claim are few and far between. Most home care agencies require their caregivers to maintain a personal liability policy, typically with a $100k limit per claim.

I can not speak for all home care agencies, but I operate with full transparency with my clients. After an evaluation, we make a recommendation on the Caregiver we think would be best for the case and discuss how much the Caregiver and the agency are paid. We only staff caregivers with 5 or more years of experience. If the client wishes, we will set up in-person or FaceTime meetings with the potential caregivers so they fully understand the job, the expectations, and the client. If it's a match, we can usually begin care the same or the next day.

In my company, there are no security deposits, pre-payments, minimum number of hours or minimum requirements for cancellation of services. This model is a win-win for the client and the caregiver, delivering better care, happier caregivers, and lower costs.
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lealonnie1 Mar 22, 2026
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To find the cost in your area you can do a search easily enough.
There are different levels of care.
Companion Care.
Caregiving, nor involved than Companion care.
Nurse.
You can contact agencies and explain exactly the type of care that is needed and they will let you know the cost.
Cost will also be effected by how many hours you need someone. Several hours each day, all day, over night? And how many days a week you need or want the help.
And cost will also vary if you hire through an agency or if you hire privately.
Be very careful if you hire privately. You do NOT want to "pay under the table" and you need to be sure that paperwork and contract is done properly and that taxes are paid.
And "room and board" is NOT payment for caregiving.
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This isn't an employment forum or aid agency.

Go to Care.com to see local rates or search "Caregiving agencies near me"+(your zipcode)
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NG2025 Mar 27, 2026
Care.com was useless in my area. Paid them for 2 months, emailed a few, no response. It was better to put up flyers everywhere than go thru care.com. This has been my experience.
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