Mom had CNAs previously when she had some falls and broken arms, wrists, etc. After a minor fall and subsequent short nursing home stay when she was 93, we started out with a CNA three days a week for 2-hours a day to help with dressing, bathing, meals, etc. As she got more frail, the hours were extended to 24/7 the last 20 months. Fortunately, Dad left funds in trust for her care, and she was able to stay in her home until she was hospitalized two weeks before her death at 98. I lived 400 miles away and visited almost every month for 3-7 days or more, buying groceries and other items, cooking, baking, and filling the freezer with her favorite foods. I could not have taken care for her 24/7. The CNAs were from a local health care service that also owned a nursing home. Having trusted aides who knew her needs (and complaints) made her feel comfortable and safe.
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